Dating woman over 40

Go for Raya.) If you go this route, prepare to be Googled and judged.

Making it past their screening process is no easy feat (unless you happen to be a minor celeb, you’re going to need some luck! But before you thumb your nose at it, it’s worth noting that if you’ve got a hobby that you really care about in your 40s—such as staying really fit, which we wholeheartedly encourage—it’s a terrific way to meet a compatible, like-minded person.

You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).

The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.

This is one of life’s big mysteries but sometimes I think the key is identifying the right places to look. When you’re over 40, you’re usually pretty comfortable in your own skin You know what you like, and what you don’t.

Maybe you would prefer to hang out at cafes, museums, film festivals and art galleries.

How women present themselves is a topic about which I can speak more knowledgeably.

We all have fulfilling careers, lots of good friends and interesting lives.

How they simultaneously manage to keep up with all those Netflix shows they admit to loving presents a real puzzle.

Perhaps they watch on their phones while they’re running, skiing, and hiking.

If you find yourself on the market in your 40s, wading into the app-dating world can feel daunting.

There are literally hundreds of apps to choose from, and if you’re a busy guy looking for something meaningful, scrolling through an endless stream of music-festival selfies probably isn’t the best use of your time.

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